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Are you Ready to Build a Happy, Fulfilling and Lasting Marriage?

The MARYAM LEMU CERTIFIED PREMARITAL MASTERCLASS offers expert guidance to help you with that. It guides you in choosing the right partner and create a fulfilling union. Avoid regrets and ensure your marriage is blessed by Allah's will. Enroll in the Maryam Lemu Certified Premarital course today and start your journey to a happy, enduring marriage.

What You Will Learn

This certified course is designed for both men and women, whether you are single, married, divorced, or widowed. In this masterclass, I will share the good, the bad, and the ugly truths about relationships.
Drawing from over 35 years of personal experiences and research, including my premarital years, this detailed guide aims to help you get it right. My greatest passion is seeing marriages succeed.
I have interviewed many individuals at different stages of their relationship journey—those who are yet to get married, those who are married, those who are divorced, and those who are widowed.

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They have shared their best practices and biggest regrets, opening up about the things they wish they had known before getting married.
Join the Maryam Lemu Certified Premarital Masterclass and gain invaluable insights that can transform your approach to relationships.
Learn from the experiences of others and equip yourself with the knowledge to build a strong, fulfilling marriage. Enroll today and take the first step towards a successful and thriving partnership.

Ready to Invest in Your Marriage?

Make a small one-time investment to equip yourself for a lifetime of happiness Insha'Allah. Gain access to invaluable insights and guidance distilled from over 33+ years of experience by Maryam Lemu.

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Take Full Course

Unlock the complete experience with our full course. Get lifetime access and registered certification upon completion. Now 50% off. Offer lasts till end of the month.

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Pay Per Module

Not ready for the full Masterclass? Try it one step at a time, then unlock the full course for lifetime access and certification. Starting from:

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20% off

Maryam Lemu is giving 20% discount to intending couples who register together for the Premarital Masterclass.

Mufti Menk Interviews Maryam Lemu

"Sister Maryam, who has years of experience in counselling and marital guidance, has been working on this project for a very long time. I’m very proud of her achievement in putting together the different aspects of this subject so beautifully. Alhamdulillah. I would recommend this work to one and all. It not only equips couples to be with what is required to lead a more meaningful life, but it guides families towards the best of this world and the next. Alhamdulillah. May Allah Almighty accept her effort, reward her immensely and grant her every success. Aameen."- Ismail Mufti Menk

Modules

In this course, I shall share the good, the bad, and the ugly truths. The mistakes I made, the best things I learned, and the most brilliant things we did that contributed to the beautiful relationship we have today. Gain a glimpse into the fundamentals of building a successful and enduring relationship, completely free of charge.
Are you ready for a truly transformational experience? Get a sneak peek into the course by watching this FREE episode now!

Module 1: Introduction

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Module 2: Expectations of Marriage & Getting Married for the Right Reasons.

In this FIVE EPISODE module, we will delve deep into the fundamental aspects of marriage, focusing on understanding expectations and ensuring you're getting married for the right reasons. Here's a glimpse of what to expect:

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Module 3: How will I know when I am ready & A Journey into Self-Discovery

In this 11 EPISODE MODULE, we will explore the key indicators and signs that signal readiness for marriage. Through introspection and reflection, discover the emotional, mental, and spiritual markers that indicate your preparedness for this lifelong commitment.

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Module 4: Qualities Needed for Healthy Marriage.

In this 17 EPISODE MODULE, we will explore the importance of open, honest, and respectful communication in nurturing a strong and enduring partnership. Learn practical communication strategies, active listening techniques, and conflict resolution skills to foster understanding and intimacy in your relationship.

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Module 5: Excess Baggage, Childhood Trauma & Things You Should Do Before Getting Married.

In this 12 EPISODE MODULE, we will delve into essential topics surrounding emotional baggage, childhood trauma, and crucial preparations before entering marriage. Here's a preview of what awaits:

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Module 6: Where to Find a Life Partner and Your Wish List

In this 12 EPISODE MODULE, we will delve into journey of exploration, self-discovery, and intentional relationship-building. Prepare to define your relationship criteria, clarify your vision for a life partner, and take meaningful steps towards finding the love and companionship you deserve.

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Module 7: Things to Talk About, Questions to Ask, Red Flags & When To Walk Away

In this 11 EPISODE MODULE, we equip you with the tools and insights needed to navigate the complexities of relationships with wisdom, clarity, and grace. Prepare to engage in transformative conversations, ask meaningful questions, and discern when to walk away with confidence and self-assurance.

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Module 8: Rights & Responsibilities of Couples & The Most Important Premarital Checklist

In this 8 EPISODE MODULE, we will explore the rights and responsibilities inherent in marriage from both Islamic and societal perspectives. Learn how to navigate the delicate balance between individual autonomy and shared commitments within your relationship.

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Module 9: Pearls of Wisdom. The Best Advice from 33 Years of Marriage

In this culminating module of the Certified Premarital Masterclass, we present you with a treasure trove of insights and wisdom gleaned from over three decades of marital experience.

Unlock this Module Now!

Take the Full Course

Register for the full CERTIFIED MASTERCLASS EXPERIENCE. Get lifetime access and registered certification upon completion.

Testimonials from the Marriage Academy Alumni

Here are testimonies from some of the thousands who have completed the Certified Premarital Masterclass. Join today and work towards your “happily ever after”, In Sha Allah.

Khadijah

"A journey of self-discovery, armed with the information necessary to select a partner. This course provides further information on marriage, and I hope that the knowledge I gain will help me be ready for the adventure that lies ahead. I gained a better understanding of Islam's view on marriage and the appropriate methods for resolving premarital conflicts. In sha Allah"

Fatima Manga

"I loved the premarital course; through this course, I learned more about myself and my habits, and it also pushed me to work on myself. I also appreciate how sister Maryam goes into the qualities of a good marriage, as it is important to build on them from the premarital stage. My favourite part was the GETTING TO KNOW YOU section of the course, as she thoroughly goes through what to watch out for, important things to watch out for, and important questions to ask."

Abdulkadir Adamu

“I found the Maryam Lemu Certified Premarital Course well loaded with important information useful for married couples and also for intending couples. The course makes you think deeply about yourself, what you know about your partner, and also about the things that drive your emotions, impulses, and intentions. In addition, it encourages self-development. I urge everyone to take the course.” 

Aisha Abubakar

The EXCESS BAGGAGE episode was my favourite section of the course because I tried the exercises and gave honest answers. The course helped me realise that I I had several damages, wounds and scars I had to heal from and let go of before starting a relationship. Thank you very much, we appreciate you sharing your experience, expertise and discernment with us."

Mariam

"A journey of self-discovery, armed with the information necessary to select a partner. This course provides further information on marriage, and I hope that the knowledge I gain will help me be ready for the adventure that lies ahead. In sha Allah."

Mohammed

"Masha'Allah, Tabarakallah, and Jazakallahu'khairan for this course. I learned a lot, and I'm praying to Almighty God to bless me with someone who will welcome all my knowledge while putting it into action."

Amina

"This course was an eye-opener for me. It shifted my perspective from finding the "perfect" spouse to focusing on self-improvement and becoming the best version of myself. I learned valuable communication skills, conflict resolution techniques, and how to identify healthy relationship dynamics."

~ Frequently Asked Questions ~

FAQs

Which school of thought is this course based on?

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    This course is as neutral as it gets when it comes to talking about finding someone and marriage from an Islamic perspective. Maryam puts a Western twist to her course, where she talks facts and experiences, and this course isn’t to do with fiqh or anything directly related to Islamic teachings.

I'm divorced. Is this course ideal for me?

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    It’s ideal for anyone who wants to build a happy home. In fact, using your past marriage experience as a reference can help you understand yourself better, identify what went wrong, and most importantly, what you can do to make it work in the future, insha Allah. She talks in depth about identifying triggers and healing from scars from the past, which is very important for anyone looking to remarry.

What is Maryam's teaching style?


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    She is very articulate and clear in her words. She is down to earth and says it as it is. No frills, no “shishi fufu” stuff. Her teaching style is engaging, reflective, and motivational. She shares many stories from her own personal experience and those of the clients she has counseled for over 20 years.

What are the key ingredients for a successful and lasting marriage?

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    A successful marriage requires open communication, trust, mutual respect, emotional intimacy, and a shared sense of purpose. Additionally, flexibility, empathy, and a commitment to growth are essential for long-lasting happiness.

What are some effective strategies for resolving conflicts in a marriage?

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    Conflict resolution involves active listening, empathy, and compromise. It's essential to focus on the issue at hand, avoid personal attacks, and work together to find solutions that benefit both partners. Seeking professional help is also a viable option when conflicts persist.

What are some common challenges couples face during the first year of marriage, and how can they overcome them?

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    Common challenges include adjusting to living together, merging finances, and managing expectations. Overcoming these challenges involves patience, communication, and a willingness to compromise. Premarital counselling can also be helpful.

How can couples balance their responsibilities as parents while also nurturing their marriage?

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    Balancing parenting and marriage involves prioritizing both roles. Schedule regular date nights or alone time, delegate parenting responsibilities, and communicate openly about your needs as individuals and as parents. A strong partnership benefits your children too.

What are some strategies for rekindling love and connection in a marriage that may have grown distant?

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    Rekindling love involves rediscovering common interests, spending quality time together, and initiating open conversations about feelings. Couples can also benefit from seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor to address underlying issues.

What are the benefits of premarital counselling, and what can couples expect from it?

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    Premarital counseling helps couples build a strong foundation for their marriage. It covers topics like communication, conflict resolution, financial planning, and goal-setting. Couples can expect to gain valuable skills and insights that will benefit their relationship.

What are some strategies for building emotional resilience and coping with adversity as a couple?

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    Building emotional resilience involves supporting each other through tough times, seeking professional help when necessary, and finding healthy ways to cope with stress. Maintain open communication, and remember that facing challenges together can strengthen your bond.

What should couples do when they feel their relationship has become routine or mundane?

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    When a relationship feels routine, couples can spice things up by trying new activities, planning surprise date nights, and openly discussing their desires and fantasies. Rediscovering excitement and spontaneity can reignite the spark.

How can couples maintain intimacy and romance in their relationship over time?

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    Couples can maintain intimacy by regularly expressing love and appreciation, prioritizing quality time together, and exploring new experiences together. Keeping the romance alive involves small gestures, surprise acts of affection, and open communication about desires and fantasies.

How can couples navigate financial issues and plan for their future together?

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    Couples should have open and honest conversations about finances, create a budget together, and set financial goals. It's crucial to save for the future, reduce debt, and regularly revisit financial plans to ensure they align with both partners' aspirations.

How can couples maintain a sense of individual identity while also being part of a partnership?

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    Maintaining individuality involves pursuing personal interests and goals, setting boundaries, and respecting each other's need for space and self-expression. Healthy couples encourage and support each other's individual growth.

How can couples keep the spark alive in their marriage after many years together?

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    Keeping the spark alive requires ongoing effort. Couples should continue to date, surprise each other, explore shared interests, and communicate openly about their desires and fantasies. Emotional and physical intimacy should remain a priority.

How can couples support each other when facing external stressors, such as work-related challenges or family issues?

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    Supporting each other during external stressors involves active listening, providing emotional support, and offering practical assistance when needed. Couples should maintain a united front and tackle challenges together as a team.

How can couples handle cultural or religious differences when it comes to parenting and raising children?

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    Handling cultural or religious differences in parenting requires open discussions, compromise, and a shared approach that respects both partners' backgrounds. Seek to find common ground that aligns with your values and beliefs.

What should couples do if they feel their emotional needs are not being met in the relationship?

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    If emotional needs are not being met, couples should have an honest conversation about their feelings and expectations. Partners can work together to understand each other's needs and make adjustments to better fulfill them.

I'm a guy. Can I take this course?


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    Of Course! Maryam covers all the topics for both men and women. Which means that both genders can benefit.

I'm in a marriage but having a few issues. Will this course help?

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    You should choose the plan that meets your needs and requirements and send us a message to place the order. You can also make it online.

I don't have a potential spouse in my life. Will this course still work?

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    This course can be taken even if you have yet to find your potential spouse. You’ll learn so much to prepare you and equip you for when the time is right. You can enroll in the course at the age of 18.

Disclaimer: This course does not guarantee a trouble-free marriage, but successful completion, including exercises and extra reading will enhance preparedness with realistic expectations and tools to overcome challenges and build a strong relationship.